Why? This is a question many want to ask God. Why do bad things happen? Why is there tragedy in our lives? Why does God allow these awful things to occur? Why is there pain and suffering in the world? Some would say that God must not be a good God or a loving God to let these things happen. Some say that He isn't all powerful and He can't fix the situation. But as Christians, we know we serve a good, all powerful God. So, how do we reconcile pain and suffering with a loving God? How do they exist together?
First of all, the Bible tells us that all of creation is polluted by sin. There were no natural disasters or hardships in life before sin entered the picture. Romans 8:22-23 says, "We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time. Not only so, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for our adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies." This passage tells us that even the Earth is groaning in pain as we wait for Jesus to come. Humans are "groaning inwardly" as we wait on our Lord.
Let's look at Paul's life. This passage comes from 2 Corinthians 11:23-28.
- "Are they servants of Christ? I am more. I have worked much harder, been in prison more frequently, been flogged more severely, and been exposed to death again and again. Five times I received from the Jews the forty lashes minus one. Three times I was beaten with rods, once I was stoned, three times I was shipwrecked, I spent a night and a day in the open sea, I have been constantly on the move. I have been in danger from rivers, in danger from bandits, in danger from my own countrymen, in danger from Gentiles; in danger in the city, in danger in the country, in danger at sea; and in danger from false brothers. I have labored and toiled and have often gone without sleep; I have known hunger and thirst and have often gone without food; I have been cold and naked. Besides everything else, I face daily the pressure of my concern for all the churches."
These are tough words to read. Paul was an amazing apostle, but he faced trouble and pain and suffering like no other. The road is not easy and there will be hard times. Even those that Jesus loves will face hardships. Let's look a Lazarus in John 11:1-4.
- "Now a man named Lazarus was sick. He was from Bethany, the village of Mary and her sister Martha. This Mary, whose brother Lazarus now lay sick, was the same one who poured perfume on the Lord and wiped his feet with her hair. So the sisters sent word to Jesus, "Lord, the one you love is sick." When He heard this, Jesus said, "This sickness will not end in death. No, it is for God's glory so that God's Son may be glorified through it."
Jesus loved Lazarus and yet still Lazarus ends up dying (at first, anyway). He doesn't get to escape pain and suffering. Some falsely preach that being a Christian or being saved will keep you from harm, and that simply isn't true. Jesus never promises us a perfect life here on this Earth and your faith can't keep you or make you healthy or wealthy.
The train of suffering and hardship runs on two tracks. These two items are of the most importance to God.
- The Gospel and Glory of God. In all things, God must receive the glory.
- The Purity and Refining of our Faith. Faith is purified and grown by the trials we face.
- "In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. These have come so that your faith-of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire-may be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed." 1 Peter 1:6-7
- "Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, no lacking anything." James 1:2-4
So, we will face tragedy and struggles, but we should turn to God and be honest with Him about our feelings. It is human nature to want to run the other way. But instead of running away from Jesus when tragedy strikes, we should run to Him and tell Him how we feel. Jesus can handle our heartache, anger, and questions. Let's look at some examples in the Bible of when men and women of great faith ran to God with questions.
- "When Martha heard that Jesus was coming, she went out to meet him but Mary stayed at home. 'Lord,' Martha said to Jesus, 'if you had been here my brother would not have died." John 11:20-21
- "I say to God my Rock, 'Why have you forgotten me? Why must I go about in mourning, oppressed by the enemy?' My bones suffer mortal agony as my foes taunt me, saying to me all day long, 'Where is your God?'" Psalm 42:9-10
- "About the ninth hour Jesus cried out in a loud voice, 'Eloi, Eloi, lama sabachthani?'--which means, 'My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?'" Matthew 27:46
Here Martha, King David, and even Jesus ask God why. Why did this happen? But if we look at the next verse in the passage in Psalms, David gives us some inspirational words.
- "Why are you downcast, O my soul? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God." Psalm 42:11
In times of hardship, remind yourself where hope comes from, as David did. Hope comes from Jesus. We won't always have an answer to our many questions or see the full picture. We only get to see a small slice of the big screen, but God sees the big beautiful picture. In the end, all things will be made right according to God's great design.
- "Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known." 1 Corinthians 13:12
We've discovered that we often won't know why things happen, but what do we know for sure?
1. Our suffering is not a punishment. We are not being condemned, but our suffering is done so that God may have the glory in our lives or that our faith may be refined.
- "Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus." Romans 8:1
- "'Neither this man nor his parents sinned,' said Jesus, 'but this happened so that the work of God might be displayed in his life.'" John 9:3
2. Our suffering is temporary.
- "I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us." Romans 8:18
- "Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us and eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal." 2 Corinthians 4:16-18
- "In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials." 1 Peter 1:6
- "Humble yourselves, therefore, under God's mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the world are undergoing the same kind of sufferings. And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm, and steadfast." 2 Peter 5:6-10
3. God's Spirit lives in us, comforts us, and prays for us. When we don't know what to say, the Spirit of God will pray what needs to be prayed.
- "In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express. And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints in accordance with God's will." Romans 8:26-27
4. God will transfer evil, suffering, and pain into good.
- "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." Romans 8:28
5. God loves us! Nothing can separate us from the love of Christ.
- "Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? As it is written: 'For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.' No, in all things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord." Romans 8:35-39
We will suffer in this life. Even Jesus suffered on Earth. But God has been the only one who has done anything about our pain. He gave us Jesus, who gives us hope. We should share that hope with others. Don't waste your pain, share it with other people. It may offer them some comfort and they can find hope in Jesus as well.
- "Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all of our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows. If we are distressed, it is for your comfort and salvation; if we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which produces in you patient endurance of the same sufferings we suffer. And our hope for you is firm, because we know that just as you share in our sufferings, so also you share in our comfort." 2 Corinthians 1:3-7